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7 Do’s and Don’ts to Get Men in Your Ministry

Blog 7.20fixedOne problem we often hear about is that children's ministries lack male volunteers. Many times, women volunteers are amazing and pick up the slack. According to George Barna, "Women are almost twice as likely as men" to teach Sunday school.  Present  an opportunity for men to step up to the plate and be positive male role models for kids who might not have one.  If your ministry could use a little extra testosterone, here are a few tips and tricks to try, as well as  some things to stay away from.


DO - Encourage any men you already have volunteering  to recruit their friends. Volunteer recruiting works best when it's personal, so don't rely on a few announcements to a crowd. When a man can speak one-on-one with another man, the chances of getting new men to come and help increase.

DON'T - Forget to encourage and compliment your male volunteers.  This simple but oh-so-important gesture will keep them motivated and let them know they are making a difference in the ministry - and that is huge for them!

DO - Give your ministry a man-friendly makeover. Now we're not saying to make your classrooms look like a man cave, but understand that men will be more attracted to rooms that don't shout out "Girl"! While you're at it, take a look at the handouts and gifts you give to your volunteers. Are they man-friendly as well?

DON'T- Leave out the high school guys. They can often relate better to the problems kids are dealing with, and younger kids look up to their older peers. Work with your youth or student minister on getting volunteers from this age group to help out with your younger kids.

DO - Be mindful of when you schedule meetings. Working men (and women) may not be able to make midday meetings. And while it is usually impossible to find free time when working around various sport schedules, try to get a schedule at the beginning of whatever sport is currently in season so you know when you should avoid scheduling meetings, if possible.

DON'T - Ask for men if you're not going to use them. Give men specific roles that keep them active in your ministry. This helps them feel as if they are making a difference and will encourage them to come back and continue to want to help out.

DO - Encourage couples to volunteer together. You'll get more volunteers, and couples work great together already! Husbands may feel more comfortable working with their wives, and you don't want to  go after the just the ones with kids. There are plenty of couples without kids who would still enjoy serving in your ministry.


As often as we hear about the shortage of men in children's ministry, we're encouraged when we hear stories of men who make time to serve with kids. God made men and women different, and that's a great thing. Your kids will benefit because of your efforts to make your ministry more gender diverse.

How is your ministry doing when it comes to having positive male role models? Do you have any tips to get men into your ministry? Are you a man  who has enjoyed serving and has suggestions for leaders? We want to hear from you! Leave your comments below and let us know what you think!


Posted at 13:53


Elizabeth McKay said...
We have several men that serve in our children's ministry! They are amazing. One of the things I love too about men serving with the kids is they have a natural authority. The children seem to be less antsy when there is a man teaching! I do also love couple teams. We have one team with our elementary kids. It is a beautiful example of partnership, and so many kids need to see husband and wife working together, healthy, Godly and having fun. The hardest thing I think is helping today's society to flip their mindset of children's ministry. It is not child care. Nor is it somewhere for you to dump your kid and forget about them for a while. Our children are to be celebrated, not tolerated! :) if you want to change the world, our kids are a great place to start!!
July 21, 2012 09:29

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